Stage 1 · Open
Spark curiosity
Reference one specific detail from her profile. Light, fun, not over-invested.
→After she replies: come back and switch to Stage 2 (Attract).
Option 1
Option 2
Option 3
Refine this message
A live example — Max wrote this in 10 seconds
Her profile
"Pilates, sarcasm, golden retriever energy."
Bad message
hey how are you
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Better message
You seem like the type to judge people based on coffee orders immediately.
Why this works
- Playful assumption
- Easy to answer
- Shows personality
- Avoids generic small talk
Max's reply for you
Momentum
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Conversation flow
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