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The Caveman Special
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Riley, 26
Tinder · 3 days ago
"You're cute 👍"
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"Surfer + home cook — you either wake up at 5am for waves or sleep in and make brunch. Which one actually happens?"
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lol mostly brunch 😂 but I tell myself I surf
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Funny & Playful
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Emma, 26
Hinge · 2 days ago
"Hey, how's your weekend going?"
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"Hiking photo + 'amateur barista' — you plan 'quick walks' that turn into 3-hour adventures, don't you?"
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Haha you nailed it 😂 last trip was 8 miles
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Maya, 29
Tinder · yesterday
"Nice profile!"
Sent · seen, no reply
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"Is that cat judging everyone or just me? Because that look is very specific."
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LOL he judges everyone. my sister got a 3/10 last week 😭
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Jess, 27
Hinge · 3 days ago
"You seem cool, want to chat?"
Sent · no reply
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"Be honest — are you actually good at board games or just very competitive?"
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both 😂 you've been warned
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Confident & Direct
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Zoe, 24
Bumble · 2 days ago
"What do you do for fun?"
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"Rock climbing and a cookbook shelf — which one comes first on a first date?"
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feed you first 😂 then the wall
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Camille, 28
Hinge · 4 days ago
"Hey! I saw you like travel too."
Sent · no reply
✨ StartTheDate rewrote it
"Bali, Lisbon, Montreal — still recovering or already planning the next one?"
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still recovering 😅 but Tokyo is next
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Warm & Genuine
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Lily, 25
Bumble · 5 days ago
"You have a great smile :)"
Sent · no reply
✨ StartTheDate rewrote it
"'owns too many plants' — what's the actual count right now?"
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31 and counting 🌿 I have a problem
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Sara, 30
Hinge · 1 week ago
"I think we'd get along well."
Sent · no reply
✨ StartTheDate rewrote it
"deep conversations + still silly — what does that actually look like for you?"
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debating whether ghosts are real at 2am is a good start 😂
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