StartTheDate Pricing — Free & Pro Plans

Most users get their first reply within minutes.
The only question is how often you want that advantage.

Try It

$0 forever

Try it risk-free. No card needed.

✓ 3 chances to turn matches into conversations
✓ Opening messages that don't get ignored
✓ Replies that keep conversations going
✓ Messages tailored to how you naturally talk
✗ Higher usage limits
✗ AI profile rating

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Pro

$19.99 / month

Full coaching access + higher usage limits.

✓ High daily limits to turn matches into conversations
✓ Opening messages + conversation replies
✓ Messages that adapt to your style
✓ Plenty of rewrites until it feels right
✓ AI profile rating — see exactly what's costing you matches
✓ Never get stuck on prompts again
✓ Send messages to your phone instantly
✓ Fix stalled conversations in seconds
✓ Learns your tone over time

$19.99/month · Renews monthly · Cancel anytime

I agree to the Terms of Service and Refund & Cancellation Policy. Billed monthly, renews automatically until cancelled. Fees are non-refundable except where required by law.

Basic

$9.99 / month

For casual dating — consistent replies without overthinking.

✓ Up to 30 chances per month to get replies
✓ Opening messages + conversation replies
✓ Messages tailored to your style
✓ Regenerate better versions instantly
✓ AI profile rating — know what's holding you back
✗ Higher rewrite limits

$9.99/month · Renews monthly · Cancel anytime

I agree to the Terms of Service and Refund & Cancellation Policy. Billed monthly, renews automatically until cancelled. Fees are non-refundable except where required by law.

Pricing FAQ

Will this actually help me get more replies?

That's the goal. Messages are built from their profile and written to sound natural — not generic, which is what tends to get a response. Results vary from person to person, and we don't guarantee any specific outcome.

Can I upgrade later?

Yes. Switch anytime. Your account updates instantly.

What happens if I cancel?

You keep access until the end of your billing period, then return to free.

Do I need a credit card to try?

No. You can try it first — no card required.

What payment methods do you accept?

All major credit and debit cards via Stripe. Your payment info is never stored on our servers.